A cup of coffee ☕ it's very bitter when we don't use sugar, we don't even want to drink it.
The sugar is sweet, even though we can taste it, but sometimes we don't like it either.
Now a father with his child:
Dad: Son, please make coffee for daddy.
Child: Yes father
The boy immediately made coffee for his father
Then dad said:
Dad: Son, please make two glasses of my child and don't give sugar, the sugar is brought elsewhere
Child: Yes father
There are a few minutes later the coffee is ready and the child immediately takes two cups of coffee in front of his father and sugar.
Dad: Son, please drink the coffee in front of you and how it feels
Directly the child drinks it.
Child: Very bitter father
Dad: Pour sugar in one spoon and drink it and how it tastes
Child: Still bitter father
Dad: add one more spoon and then drink it
Son: still bitter father
Dad: add one more spoon and then drink it
Child: Dad feels sweet and delicious to drink
Dad: add one more spoon
Child: More sweet daddy
Dad: add one more spoon
Child: very sweet daddy
Dad: add another spoon
Child: it's so sweet daddy is even worse in drinking again.
Then the father said your lesson is enough today, take one more coffee that you haven't given sugar at all, then you mix both and the child does according to his father's orders, and enjoys coffee with his father.
Then the father said. THAT'S A LEARNING OF MY CHILDREN'S LIFE when you live with a wealth of wealth it is not full of the pleasure of my child and vice versa, a very difficult life is also not comfortable for his child, but you have to adjust it.
Well, from coffee, we can take the life guidelines, what about the others?