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Maybe you ever feel annoyed when you see the posting of friends who always 'complain' in social media. Not far from the ugly sentence and feel the most 'suffering'. It's natural if you feel that way, but do you know many people choose to vent in social media instead of someone. Nothing else because he felt no one else would listen to him.
Everyone has a different way to recycle their emotions. Some are through the vent in the diary, writing a series of sentences in social media lethargy and if they are lucky to confide to the people closest to him. So what should you do when you find one of your friends vent in social media?
Try to say hello
When knowing one of my friends vent out in social media. Warmly greet him. Ask him if he needs to ask about his current situation. If you are close, there is no harm in asking about the reasons why he vent in social media. No need to force her to tell a story, if she is not ready for a story need not be angry.
Make sure she does not feel alone by being around her.
They Need to Be Strengthened, Then Your Duty to Affirm His Heart
A depressed friend needs to be strengthened. Often someone who is facing a problem does not need to be given a solution. It just needs to be heard and strengthened. He needs confirmation of his decision. Help them to find the strength to deal with the problem. This will be helpful in addition to being the place for storytelling.
Motivate, even if the words of a motivational phrase will be able to make him feel to find his spirit again. Do not forget to remind him, that he has a friend who cares about him.
Do not Criticize What He Is Doing
Often we forget to criticize friends who always tell the same thing every time. But, do you know that telling stories will not solve the problem, but telling stories will help you feel more calm. They just need to be heard without interruption, in his consciousness he understands that what he is doing is wrong. Just listen to it, judging it just makes things worse.
Being a good listener is not easy. But try to be a listener for the people closest to you. begin to be sensitive to the circumstances and emotions of the nearest person. Make sure that you can be a good listener and always willing to spend time for your best friend. Have a good day.
Hopefully Helpful :)