Originally shared on scientistmel.com (links to references linked on that website)
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CW Sexual Assault
With the increased amount of news stories related to sexual assault, rape, and attempts at sexual coercion...Open dialogue has begun on the long time issue of sexual assault and many men are shocked that sexual assaults are regularly happening. Women joined together to tweet #METOO to expose just how common sexual harassment and assault is for women. The campaign gave a very personal face in the form of friends and loved ones to the often blanketed and hidden appearance of sexual assault and harassment victims. Good men are now up in arms and disturbed at just how widespread and personal it really is.
I have encountered men who feel upset that some women hate all men. While it can seem to be an unfair judgement to hate all men based on the actions of a few, it is important to learn the perspectives of others as this is a symptom of a very real disease...rampant sexual harassment and assault of women throughout their lives. Women understand this is not new and science has always backed them up with evidence.
RAINN has substantial statistics and has been vocal about sexual violence in the US for years. These stats are just the ones from those interviewed (including crimes not reported to the police) and do not include harassment. It is a reasonable statement to consider that the numbers are likely higher.
1 in 6 women are victims of sexual assault.
As of 1998 17.7 million women in the US have been victims of attempted or completed rape.
82% of all juvenile victims are female. 90% of adult rape victims are female.
Females ages 16-19 are 4 times more likely than the general population to be victims of rape, attempted rape, or sexual assault.
Women ages 18-24 who are college students are 3 times more likely than women in general to experience sexual violence. Females of the same age who are not enrolled in college are 4 times more likely.
Victims of sexual assault, rape, and/or harassment have a myriad of damage from which they have to heal. RapeVictimAdvocates discusses some of the effects of rape and assault on individuals (listed below). There are emotional, psychological, and physical damage that can be done in regards to these forms of abuse. For many women, these effects can be crippling and vary in manifestation, amount, as well as onset.
Emotional Reactions
Guilt, shame, self-blame
Embarrassment
Fear, distrust
Sadness
Vulnerability
Isolation
Lack of control
Anger
Numbness
Confusion
Shock, disbelief
Denial
Psychological reactions
Nightmares
Flashbacks
Depression
Difficulty concentrating
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
Anxiety
Eating disorders
Substance use or abuse
Phobias
Low self esteem
Physical reactions
Changes in eating or sleeping patterns
Increased startle response
Concerns about physical safety
Physical injury
Concerns about pregnancy or contracting an STI or HIV
There is also evidence to show how this can also affect them financially and hurt their future endeavors in the workplace. Women drop out of college due to the amount of emotional strain it puts on them to cope with the assault. They lose wages from not being able to work because of counseling appointments (which also costs money). It can become a financial burden on them and there families. Costs from rape can range from $87,000 - $240,000 per act of rape.
A question some might ask is why don't women report. There is evidence that women who report have a negative social response.
According to one study (in link above) women in turn are silenced due to the negative response they receive.
Negative reactions from professionals led survivors to question if it is worth discussing any further.
Negative reactions from friends and family reinforced feelings of self-blame.
Negative reactions from either of the above reinforced personal uncertainty as to whether or not they were actually raped.
These reactions victims receive do not take into account the toll it has on them when they do report and have to psychologically withstand a full investigation with extremely intimate details being put on display for jury and media (though media tends to not report victim's names). This alone is a deterrent for reporting a rape.
If a woman reports a rape or attempt, there is a 98% chance her attacker will walk free.
Out of 1000 rapes (RAINN statistics)
310 are reported
57 lead to arrest
11 get referred to prosecutors
7 have a felony conviction
6 are incarcerated - 1.9% of reported rapes lead to incarceration
2/3 rapes go unreported
The media has been reporting more stories of individuals who are convicted of rape but serve little to no time in prison. Brock Turner only served 3 months time in jail for raping an unconscious woman at a college party. He was caught in the act by 2 other men. Even with this substantial amount of evidence the judge did not want Turner to spend more than 3 months in prison saying it was not appropriate. Even the father of the rapist said he felt his son shouldn't go to jail for "20 minutes of action". A sexual assault and/or rape does not even take that long.
Bill Cosby has had droves of women come forward about his sexual assaults towards them with no conviction but a mistrial from 2 jurors blocking a conviction. Most of the claims the women made are past the statute of limitations. So, it is exceedingly unlikely or legally impossible for Cosby to be charged criminally and even investigated. California has, however, removed the statute of limitations on rape September 2016 for assaults starting after the new law passed. Cosby is not alone in regards to the media reporting more men in high powered positions using their status to abuse women.
Additionally, assault victims are now being given ankle monitors to alert them of the presence of their abusers. Which has become a privacy issue for any victim who does not want to discuss why she is wearing an ankle monitor, a device normally given to criminals on probation.
There is a consistent point of view that appears in rape victim treatment as far as believing the victim in regards to false rape accusations. The current statistic is that 2-10% of cases are listed as "false reports". It is important to note that these reports involved in those studies do not clearly state whether it was a false, baseless, or not enough to warrant investigation.
The National Sexual Violence Resource Center's publication on false reporting states...
Many published reports do not clearly define false allegation, and often include data that falls outside of most accepted definitions (Lisak et al., 2010). The International Association of Chiefs of Police (IACP) upholds that, “The determination that a report of sexual assault is false can be made only if the evidence establishes that no crime was committed or attempted” (IACP National Law Enforcement Policy Center, 2005, pp. 12-13). The FBI and IACP have issued guidelines that exclude certain factors, by themselves, from constituting a false report (Lisak et al., 2010, p. 1320).
These include:
Insufficient evidence to proceed to prosecution
Delayed reporting
Victims deciding not to cooperate with investigators
Inconsistencies in victim statement
While some police departments may follow these guidelines, it is not mandatory, and as a result, many do not. In addition, gaps in law enforcement training may inadvertently encourage identifying any of the following factors as indicators of a false report: delayed reporting, victim indifference to injuries, vagueness, or victim’s attempt to steer
away from unsafe details, suspect description, or location of offense (Archambault, 2005). As a result, many reports are classified as “false.”
Thus, it is reasonable to suggest that the "false reports" percentage of 2-10% is not accurate in the assumption it places that a sex crime did not occur. The lack of definitive information can not lead to the conclusion that a victim inherently lied about a sexual assault. The percentage can not be trusted and should not be used as an argument to not believe a victim which can lead to harmful victim blaming and/or withholding protective care, mental health care, as well as physical health care until evidence is collected.
The current system is not yet set up to effectively help victims of sexual assault. The back up rape kits that have yet to be tested show the lack of priority the legal system places on rape. One city, Memphis, still has over 600 rape kits untested with just as many rape investigations going on...this number is down from 12,000 untested rape kits in 2013.
The trauma women go through when assaulted can be exacerbated by the legal process from the previously given evidence. Victims do not often report do to the response they receive from professionals.Victims get blamed and/or interrogated to determine if they actually said NO as well as what they were wearing. Victims get tagged with ankle monitors making them feel as if they have done something wrong. The toll on the family is substantial and can spill into a massive financial burden. The statistics are startling and upsetting to many. Women do not report because there is seemingly no reason to speak out without some kind of backlash and/or it does no good. People rarely go to jail for rape. Rape kits go untested for years.
Shifting to the uproar many good men are experiencing in regards to more women speaking out. Good men out there in the world, this is not new to women. This does not mean they are bad men for not knowing. It means that women are so used to being objectified and harassed that the headlines pose no real surprise to us. The statistics of 1 in 6 are real...and likely higher. #METOO showed just how rampant this issue is. We are objectified most of our lives as women. Here is an article that addresses 34 things we do to avoid being harassed and/or assaulted...it is automatic to us by the time we are grown women. We have it ingrained in us that we could be the 1 in 6 at any time. This is what we call rape culture. This article HERE is a guide to explaining rape culture to good men. You adjust your behavior because of the bad men who seemingly have free reign in the current system.
Now, I want to address those men who are upset that they find some women hate all men. Good men should not take this personally. Instead see it as a symptom of a rampant disease called sexual harassment/assault. The woman who hates all men is likely the victim of repeated assaults. While it is not entirely fair for her to hate all men, bad men do not wear signs. A person can have a legitimate fear of snakes after having been bitten by several requiring hospitalization. The thing that separates those with a fear/hatred of snakes from those with a fear/hatred of men is that venomous snakes wear signs. Sexual assailants are not so easily recognized. They are often people close to women who have won their trust. People that were important and dear. How can a person recover and trust repeatedly if this happens so often?
Good men out there, what can you do? Join groups who work to raise awareness of violence against women. There is an increasing trend seen of men involved in mass shootings who have histories of violence against women. Raising awareness and pushing for stricter legislation is not only beneficial for women but can also contribute to minimizing these mass shootings as well as understanding triggers for such acts of violence against so many.
A list of advocacy groups where you can contribute can be found HERE.
Other things you can do?
Educate yourself on the statistics.
Give a safe space for women to feel comfortable to talk to you.
Allow time and space for women (you likely already give them a wide berth when walking at night so they aren't uncomfortable).
Be understanding that 1 in 6 women have been assaulted (likely more than that).
Consider, how would you feel if you had been attacked/harassed to the point you are afraid to walk to your car every day...or slightly panic when seeing a group of individuals who you fear may harm you.
Be an advocate for change. Call out harassment and assault when you see it. Hold other men accountable for their behavior. Your voice is important, too.
Vote for officials who support groups and legislation to reform the current system in regards to sexual violence.
We as a society must work together to find solutions to help victims of sexual assault allowing them a space to discuss their experiences without receiving abuse. Women can not do it alone. It takes the whole of society to band together to stop harmful individuals from forcing our society to view women as perpetual victims who must prevent themselves from getting assaulted. Education is the first step. It is only through raising awareness and educating ourselves to the reality of the situation that we can develop understanding and initiate change for a better world.
All of my sources are in hyperlinks within the text.
Thank you for reading,
Scientist Mel