Today someone shared with me a video of herself and I suddenly realized! This person is really beautiful but... What is it that makes a person beautiful?
And all of a sudden I'm thrown in this pattern of thought and more kept flooding in my mind the entire day, about what it means to be beautiful, and what is it that makes a person beautiful?
The truth is when I was younger I would stand in front of the mirror and not liking what I saw in the reflection, often I would think do I really have to be in this body for my entire life!! Bummer! But as the years progressed and I went through those depression stages, and I began to move more into a spiritual mindset in life.
Something happened! I believe that it is good that people compare themselves to others, because it allows people who do that to feel really bad about them self, but once that realization is known they now have the power and ability to look at them self in any way they want to.
And the same is true for me! I compared myself to others, but I began to learn and I realize this now more than ever before, that beauty as they say, is in the eye of the beholder right, because you could say to someone that they are really beautiful, but that person might actually think you are joking, and it can be perceived as hurtful!
So I would like to make the analogy with this, Winning the Lottery and Being Beautiful, Now the only thing these two have in common is that you think that you will feel happier if you have it! And let me tell you this! That's not accurate!
Did you know that people who win the lottery often have the most miserable life you can imagine? Because the banks are out for your money! Friends and family want a piece of what you have, and as a result, families break apart! So it doesn't really bring you happiness!
Now did you know that what society considers Physical Beauty be it male or female are often people that are feeling the worst in society? Well, it's true! Why because everyone wants a piece of them, people are jealous of them, friendships break apart!. So once again doesn't really bring you happiness!
I have spoken with so many beautiful girls over these last 9 years, and i have to say most of them are absolutely rotten to the core, not all! But most are, sure they may be pretty, but what's at the heart of that is that beauty is not what's on the outside! It is what's on the Inside that comes to the outside!
Beauty is about a perspective but it is more about attitude than anything else!
So being beautiful is about you being yourself, kindness, joyful, appreciative, sharing, loving, communicative, open-minded. These are the aspects that make a human being beautiful!
So the only words I want you to remember from this are these:
Being beautiful is not about something on the outside, it is something about the inside that comes out.
And as far as the lottery goes, the only lottery I want you to ever win is Finding your true self among the 7 billion people in the world, when you can do that, then you truly have won the Jackpot!
The only lottery you ever have to win is finding yourself!