For thousands of years, humanity has struggled with this question. Is it possible for a guy and a woman to remain best friends without having sex?
To address this question, we must first understand the differences in how men and women are wired. Men are more concerned with the physical aspects of things, while women are more emotionally aware. We also express our emotions in different ways, making it difficult to understand each other at times.
Why do we have best friends, though? Why are they required? What are their functions in our lives?
Best friends are supposed to be there for each other in need. They're there to support one another when things are rough. They listen to each other lament, laugh at one another jokes, and cry with each other when they need it the most.
The kind of friendship that isn't based on sexual activity. You know, you can go to the movies with her without her thinking it's a date. You can talk for hours on the phone without worrying about what she might think if you say anything dumb. You may tell her anything, and she won't criticize you or share your secrets around town like some gossipy old lady.
But there's a catch: you can't do it unless you've had sex first.
If you're a woman, you may think, "Why can't I just be best friends with a man?" Why am I obligated to have sexual relations with him? There are numerous explanations for this. To begin with, it's no secret that when it comes to friendship, men are the weaker sex. Most males are emotionally stunted and incapable of establishing a friendship with a woman above 23 without getting into her panties. Furthermore, if he manages to be friends with you past this point in life—which is doubtful given his age—sexual tension will always exist in your relationship. This will certainly result in issues when both individuals finally cave in and have sex for no reason other than society's expectations!
When a man and a woman are best friends, sexual tension might arise. This sexual tension might lead to one or both individuals having sex, which can be uncomfortable for the other people in the relationship.
When men and women are interested in each other as friends, it is advised that they keep their distance to avoid awkward situations.
Why? Because when a man and a woman are in the same room, their bodies are programmed to want to procreate. This is why people say "no means no," because if one person says yes, then the other person's body will want things from it that might go against what the other person actually wants.
I'm not suggesting that a man and a woman can't be best friends without having sex. However, I believe it will be incredibly difficult for them to do so.
Because two people who are attracted to each other can't be best friends unless they have sex first, even though they've known each other for years, they can't trust each other enough to have anything close to true closeness. Even if they have sex once (or twice), it won't be long before all of their old problems resurface.
According to studies, 99 percent of male and female best friends have sex at some point.
Basically, you CAN NOT become **BFFs **with someone without first having sex with them!
What are your thoughts on the subject?