Living life in general, individuals such as us find ourselves communicating with our kind in many ways, words build sentences and sentences build conversations, and being observant is a key ability we humans have to gather information and to process it in order to survive.
Now, this introduces the question I have for you today, Are you observant enough to rake through conversations that are measly simple but changed your intake on a lot of things? They're like mini life lessons which make you a better person, you could say that it implies character development, these mere simple words have a bigger impact than you think.
The unconscious mind whispers its thoughts into a lot of daily conversations, which can be heard loud and clear as words when spoken out loud. These words have a deeper meaning than you think, it hits you like a bus or might be ignored, it all depends on what clicks for you and what's your perspective, personality plays a significant role as well, with all these abilities wrapped into one entity it makes the person emotionally sensitive, which can be taken in a good way or a bad way, one word you might think of as a compliment might offend someone else, it all depends on the view and the experiences you have been through
So this blog is based on a story that is a personal incident that give me and my brother a life lesson,
so I was working in the kitchen cooking and baking yummy dishes
when my bother come to the kitchen and stand by my side while I was washing dishes he came there to wash his dishes as per home rules that if any person has made something, only for himself then he will do his used wash dishes himself. I handed over the sponge and continued working at once he threw the dishwashing sponge in the sink and was about to go as for him his work was done.
I mentioned his name and said, ''Hye, do you even know how much effort it contains to place back this dishwashing sponge'.
He started laughing and said' ''Was effort provided for this little thing''
at that time I got a little angry that I am doing home chores from morning and now it's evening and what is he saying ''EFFORT''.
He comes back to replace the sponge at that time I grab his hand and started saying ''Ok so there is no effort in this little right, So why didn't you placed it before my notification? Right! Right! there is no effort in any of these little things than why don't you place your scattered clothes on its right, Why don't you place your shoes at its place and why don't you help me in this little thing? According to you, there is no effort in this little thing.''
It seems no meaning if we don't observe it and may say that this person has high temper without realizing its original root because, we are used to of comfortable life and for us, we only consider work that is job business cooking, just those things that visually seems hard and difficult for us. But our mothers, sister, wife, father( or any people that take care of us at home and outside of it) taking care of cleaning the room, placing our scattered clothes, shoe books, and other stuff in its place. cook for you and wash all the dishes vacuum house and buy kinds of stuff from the market for a home this may seem effortless but it consumes a lot of time and hard work to maintain them. if you consider it worthless and easy then it these yourself as per your perception.
We only have 24 hours in a day there to make our loved ones, who do our work without any expectation, life better at least we should thank them and do at least these little work by placing things back to their place.
Believe it or not, this will definitely give them happiness, a smile, and some time for themself.
THANK YOU
