To me, life is about 2 perspectives: how you see yourself, and how you see the world you live in. To some of us, money is everything, while to others, money means little more than conventional wisdom. If you extract sexualisation from a decision and instead look at the nature of the thought given, the only thing that matters and makes sense in all of this message is how a lack of information can be considered to someone. Change begins with you: in a single moment of acceptance in how you are and what you're capable of, in turn where that will take you. It only matters if someone has little to no belief in you and your success if you don't believe in yourself. We all have greatness within us, but we dampen that because of another's view of us, and this is something that I find rather peculiar.
The concept of control is not largely exclusive to sexism, but rather to maintain and limit your capacity for growth based on the thought patterns you accept as justified. Accept your greatness, become great. Listen to judgment, become squandered. Life is what you make it, and you are unique and great - if you believe it.
RE: On property