Hello Steemit.... good evening from Indonesia.
The most beautiful gift for married couples is that in the gift of a child, for those of you who are now carrying a father or mother, hopefully you can always trust and care for them.
Remember, whatever your child is, they are the most beautiful trust from Allah, which you must guard with full sense of responsibility.
And understand one thing, that every child has its own uniqueness, so you should never compare your child with someone else's child, if at the end you know only complain to the creator.
Grow your gratitude as much as possible, because truly your growing gratitude to God will surely less you complain.
Even as difficult and complicated as you are in guarding it, you will never complain if every time your heart is always beautiful with gratitude.
Then when a child starts to grow up, of course your responsibility must be increased again, especially patience and sincerity in directing it on a good and right path.
And when they made a mistake, then justify him with compassion and true responsibility. That is, do not reprimand him with emotion, but rebuke him with expressions of affection, because surely speaking with the heart will be more heartening.
Don't let your emotions hurt him, make him feel depressed, and feel cornered. But embrace him with affection, while telling him what they must improve in the future.
Because after all the circumstances, like any mistake, still they are the most beautiful trust from Allah for you.
For that reason, if they makes a mistake, make sure you keep patiently admonishing and directing it to a better direction.
Educate him to be a child who is able to respect and love you, do not let him obey you only because of fear, because you are a hard father or mother.
Because if your child is obedient because he respects and loves you, then God willing, they will never make you hurt and do anything that is inappropriate.
Know, O father and mother, really being good and obedient to a child depends on how patiently you direct it to the good and right.
Because the nature of the child needs to be guided, directed, and given understanding without saturation. Then when you find your child making a mistake, don't immediately scold and beat him, but ask why they made a mistake and give him the best possible understanding.
