The Suggestions section receives a much lower upvote % than the Bugs section, so I think that's why mods are always pushing people to move. I've had this issue too - it seems to be on a mod-by-mod basis and if you talk to them in Discord it helps sometimes. I agree that the current system is frustrating sometimes but I don't know of any way to fix it - maybe users and mods could rate each other mutually?
RE: Frustrations with utopian.io treating unexpected and incorrect output as a feature request.