Each time the days pass and both remember and smile about the experiences they saw and the memories from years ago (although they do not share and comment among themselves those stories, but with third parties), from the first moment they met in high school being very young people, from the typical meetings of young boyfriends in secret because the parents did not know about the relationship of courtship of both. Currently both feel attraction, a love and I do not know if a greater feeling that is love.
Time passes, approximately 20 years, in that course of two decades, many changes occur in each, have new partners, change of city, professional studies, jobs, outings, new friends, among many more things. Although after so many years and events in both their lives, they come back together as a couple, husbands and fathers. After past 6 years, so many experiences lived and enjoyed as they refer, they terminate the union of spouses, without any reason or response on this action taken, because each tells me a different version, which never could or not They have been able to solve.
Thirteen years after separation and with a daughter who joins them, they tell their daughter that the experiences they lived, how much they wanted and how little they suggest is that there is still a chemistry between them and still not the lets be together My parents, always worry and ask for each one, and it is logical that despite not maintaining a relationship as friends or separated parents still cares for each other, every time I talk to each of them they are noticed that there is still something that unites them, beyond a child. It is important to note that both are strong and therefore proud, very closed; I would like, as a result of that union, to unite them again, although it is almost impossible and many would think "what a stupidity so big, what a waste of time, looking for a needle in a haystack, etc.", but for me it would be satisfactory to return to see them together or at least clarify the reason for their separation, because as I mentioned earlier, both have different versions and the worst of all is that they are reasons that have a quick solution, are not the typical infidelity, there is no love, etc. ., none of that, are reasons where they participate third but not unfaithful actions, but "family members" if they can be called and "friends".
Hopefully one day engage in a conversation that is not only the topic of conversation or advice, that the conversation will be extended and solve the questions that more than 13 years ago have not been.
This happens to most Venezuelan and Latin American families, many parents are divorced, many grow up without a paternal or maternal figure, or if that representative figure exists it is not always the same blood, it is like a substitute.
I would like this type of post to raise awareness of fathers, mothers, daughters, sons, uncles, aunts, grandparents, grandmothers, cousins, cousins, neighbors, friends, co-workers, etc., become aware of this type of topic, which When there is a problem or imbalance in a marriage or union between couples who share lives, arrange between both parties and take and meet conditions that are established between them, that do not add third parties to this type of problem that you seek solutions. Fathers and mothers who think very well about the actions they perform and both think about the future and raising of their children