Usually, I feel situations like choosing the wrong person over and over again in a partnership with. I'm a loser when it comes to connections.
Meeting with adults from dysfunctional family members. A system of people who could shake and analyze the preliminary reasons why their many connections do not work, so they do not feel good enough, sufficiently adequate, adorable or simply ineffective. What it does is increase the compassion that everyone has with him and intensify to define himself as a loser.
I remember a great cultural anthropologist, Margaret Mead, who wondered why all her marriages had quit working and stated, "I'm sad, I've had three relational unions, and none of them was a failure. of a person in a connection, premature or adult, a connection error, I think relationships are changing well.
Relationships work as long as they work and all associations change. In some cases, people stay together when the relationship changes type and, in some cases, separated from society.
See, I think growth in an association has to do with the desire to see your role when things do not work in general and make the changes you need to do to clean up your side of the road. It is responsible, it is also attentive and it is certainly a progress, even if many tests are needed to finally achieve the ideal result.
The least healthy point that worked for a while I was with this guy was exactly what led to problems requiring adjustment. At the beginning, when we were in the honeymoon phase of our association, these little irritations did not seem like a big problem and I probably would have swallowed them with a delicious chocolate cookie that refused to be honest with myself. Today, I really believe that what makes or breaks a connection is the way couples deal with a problem.
Since each person has a different concept of where the relationship is going, in today's world a good partnership can change the right path. You may want to keep your job and maybe be ready to say yes and have a child. If I divide the methods, does it break it? I do not believe it.
A person who lives in a society with a guilty man, a control maniac, a couch potato, an abuser, a bored person or a drug addict of any kind has a good reason to stay in this association. How does it work for you? They say "not very good", but the fact is that something is working well or could change the nature of the association.
The goal of all partnerships is to expand and discover, as well as sometimes exhausting ways to change our methods may require a lot of effort, and in some cases, it may take a while to get started. However, you are not a loser if you do not see any progression at the beginning. It simply means that you can learn a little more or that a faith does not serve you. It is important not to give force to a sudden judgment that blames you, and if you do not really like what you are doing and you do not find a way to fix it, you can always find an expert for your help. I am in favor of never-ending lonely and asking for help.
At the same time, I do not consider any type of person in a relationship, prematurely or fully adult, a failure in connections. Relationships work as long as they work and all relationships change in type. In today's world, a connection that begins to play can change shape because everyone has a different concept of the relationship.
A person who stays in touch with a culprit, a control freak, a couch potato, an abuser, a reamer or a drug addict of any kind has a good reason to stay in this context. Inevitably, they say "not very good," but the reality is that something is working well or that it would definitely change the way the relationship is formed.
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