After some thinking and healing after my partner betrayed me, I finally understand why some people say they don’t care about looks. It’s wonderful having a smoking hot chic, but how she handles pain, happiness, and her own life becomes far more important.
I never understood it until that blaze of pain engulfed me for weeks on end and kept coming back for another stab. If you like Shallow Hal, can’t be more attracted to the person inside, you’re probably doing it wrong. I guess that’s why so many relationships fail. We spend all of our time on social media and text getting to know how others advertise themselves and not enough time going through ups and downs to see how they handle life’s curve balls. We rush into marriage because we’re supposed to be married, but don’t take the time to learn if that person even values those vows.
Slow down & take the time to get to really know the person before you dedicate yourself to a potential train wreck. Save both your time and pain.