The island (pseudonym) has been increasing day by day. He must give whatever he wants. After getting something, it takes some time to take it, and then all the interest in it goes away. The new beginnings begin. Island is now 16 Since childhood he is such a He has to buy a motorcycle. A 16-year-old child's motorcycle buying abdadar parents-father? Or should such a statement be met?
A few days ago, a news story published in the newspaper was strongly stirred. Another 10th class student tried to kill the ninth grade student. After a few days of treatment, the ninth class survived the teenager's life. It is reported that friendship with the tenth grade teenage girl is not much longer. The 16-year-old ninth-grade teenager wanted a motorcycle for his father. Before SSC passed, the father did not want to give it to him. However, he said that after the SSC, the boy would buy a car or a microbus. But the boy with a tenth-grade boy riding a motorcycle is exactly the boy. Bike oil was purchased with money from his parents for money. Then one night at night, a 10th class student of the tenth grade student hit the knife with the knife.
It is not at all acceptable to behave in a variety of ways if there is no need for excess demand, to be persistent. Because the children are inconsiderate. There is no awareness of the financial condition of parents. Troubles to parents, they do not value anything. Anything can not give them long pleasure and learn to waste. Besides, there is no need to admit that the child has to abide by the economic prosperity. It will play a positive role in helping children to buy books, but if the motorbike, expensive smartphone or car load is met, its negative impact will be on the child. It is necessary to know the parents of the children and they will not meet any objection.
Do not give extra items of necessity
Every child has a need and needs age changes. But there must be limits to meet these needs. No child has to buy additional toys, clothes etc. Because the child becomes accustomed to more things and nothing can give him more satisfaction or pleasure.
Not all needs to be met
Children want to get something from childhood. But not all parents or other needs should be met. If the elderly meets all the needs of the child, then the needs of the child continue to grow. Once it goes out of control. The parents of the island used to fulfill all their obligations from their childhood. As a result the island has become more demanding.
Do not pay more expensive items
When looking for toys, clothing, shoes or anything for the baby, it should be kept so that they are not bought at a higher price. If he gets more expensive than his childhood he will be accustomed to expensive things. As a result, children will not like if they do not give expensive gifts. Do not want to use anything big and expensive. If the parents do not have the ability to buy expensive things for any reason at any given time, this behavior of the child creates a big problem.
Limited shopping
All of the family needs to keep the shopping needs of the children together. If the children spend extra money with children, they simply do not take this matter seriously and begin to insist on getting the accessories. So it is not right to make extra purchases for anyone.
Explain and explain from early childhood
Why do not all the demands will be met, it will have to be explained to children from their childhood. It can not be said to be angry, threatened, killed or screamed. Let's explain the reasons good on cold heads. It is necessary for the child to have the financial condition of the parents as well as the child.
There is no difference between a boy and a child
In many families, all the needs of the boy are met, the needs of the girl are not met than that. In such discriminatory behavior, boys may become more demanding. On the other hand, the girl may become arrogant and may get sorrow. Violence in the siblings can develop because of such discrimination.
Instead of giving time to the child, do not do extra things
Nowadays it is often seen that in a job or business, mother or father has to go abroad. They bought more items from abroad for the child. They may think that the children will be happy if they give expensive things and they will take their absence easily. Actually there is no alternative to staying with the parents, caring for them, telling stories with them. That's the good for the child.
Do not talk about everything that is being done
Many of us have a habit of talking about baby's needs. As we talk to others, we say, 'I fulfill all the needs of my child, he will ask for something, and I will not be able to do that.' If he says such a thing in front of the child he will have to ask for more. If he does not keep his promise, then the anger will express anger.