Cactus plants exist that are created with thorns around their bodies, some are not. If if the cactus could speak, maybe they would choose to be a beautiful flowering plant, and certainly without thorns. But cactus plants can not choose how they create. Humans also apply the same thing. We can not choose to be born where we have what kind of parents, and also how we will be born.
But we can still choose in terms of: how we will fill in this life, what attitudes and decisions when problems are allowed to come in our lives
