When you start whining and complaining about anything that is of a 1st world nature such as motorvehicles, phones, aircons, the service at a restaurant, traffic, wifi connections, potholes, electricity power outs, not getting your morning coffee in, rain just to name a few, then you need to stop your bullshit mate!
Nobody is gonna put you in the shoes of someone who is less fortunate, only you can do that and when you do you'll realize that life is hard and the poverty cycle especially in war torn regions is "nigh" impossible to break!
So take a second everyday before you can start complaining to show appreciation for the things you have and this will help you catch yourself complaining about things that are not so serious!
We need more positivity - there is start, the next step would be to do some work to help less fortunate people and finally step 3 would be planning and actions of proactive interventions in the lives and processes destructive to those less fortunate...
If everyone pulls their weight we can change this world, but it begins with your thoughts, your attention and attitude!
Let's start right now by showing sone appreciation for the small things