So you want to be charismatic? Well you've come to the right place.
Charisma is one of the most beneficial traits that you can have whether that be in a social situation, the workplace, or at the liquor store you're trying to rob. Charisma can be applied in daily life and I'm here to teach why and how do it. Let's get sexy and charismatic shall we fellas?
Why should you be charismatic? Charisma as defined by the webster dictionary, as "a personal magic of leadership arousing special popular loyalty or enthusiasm for a public figure" Or, the dummy definition, what makes a person likable. Charisma doesn't always have to be a public figure either. It can be anyone. I'm going to give you tips on how to do it, while keeping the tips short and quick.
Tip number uno: Smiling
Picture from John F. Kennedy biography on www.thefamouspeople.com
Smiling is the easiest of the steps to becoming a more charismatic fellow. If you don't have nice teeth, GET THEM. I can tell you from experience that having a nice smile is a huge game changer. People find you more attractive, which makes people like you a lot more (obviously). Get your smile on fellas.
Tip number dos: Humor
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This one is a bit tougher than you'd imagine. There's no standard of what people think is funny, so try different types of humor. There's deadpan humor, relatable humor, sarcastic humor and much much more. Different people, different styles of humor, same old same old.
Tip number tres: Listening
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This one is not too hard but can be challenging for some. Not everyone has the same attention span, so this one might be tough for the next guy. The key to being a good listener is eye contact. Eye contact, eye contact, more eye contact, and even more eye contact. This lets the person you're listening to know that you are fully engaged in what they are saying. You like it when other people are listening to you, and so does everyone else. Be present.
Tip number cuatro: Confidence
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Confidence is the MOST important thing in life I can't stress that enough. If you have confidence, other people find you very likable to sometimes weird degrees. If you are not confident with yourself, figure out what's blocking it and FIX THAT SHIT. Confidence confidence confidence. Make sure you stand tall, puff your chest out a little bit and head high. Not too high though, you don't want to look arrogant.
Thank you for looking at my post. betafish out.