Helping others who are in distress will not make you even more difficult, because when you petrify others you will get the most valuable things from life that you can feel proud of yourself that can be useful to others and you will gain experience from people's stories that you help from the trouble faced. Besides God is also not sleeping, because if you facilitate others in distress then believe that God will help you in trouble you face with the help of the prayer of the people you help.
Sharing with others is a noble thing in life, because sharing what we have with people in need will make us more beneficial with others than you will feel proud of yourself and make you more rich in heart.
