CONFRONT IN A POSITIVE WAY
“Then Nathan said to David, ‘You are the man!(2 Samuel 12:7). Can you imagine the courage it took for Nathan the prophet to confront King David about his affair with Bathsheba? Most of us tend to avoid confrontation because we fear being disliked and rejected. But when you avoid confrontation it often makes things worse. By hiding his sin, David was robbing himself of the blessing of the Lord. Looking back, he wrote, “If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened; but God has surely listened and heard my prayer(Psalm 66:18-19).
Message.
The tiny growth you don’t want to deal with now can end up becoming a cancer that consumes you in the future. If you love someone, you’ll take courage and confront them in love. Confrontation is an opportunity to help develop that person—provided you do it respectfully and with their best interest at heart. To confront someone in a positive way, be specific to address the wrong action, not the person. The Bible says, “The Lord corrects those he loves(Proverbs 3:12). So if you love someone, you’ll confront them in the right way.
Because without confronting them you will stay with anger and hate in your heart yet anger and hate is not of Gods.the more you stay angry about something the more you hurt itself and others close to you because your heart is not filled with love but hate.
My brothers and sisters let us choose to love for God is love.
Love
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