@mcsamm Agreed, it's also important to love ourselves because when we've a glass full of water and it's overflowing then others would also get more benefit from our endeavors. You said right, many times people can't understand the actual meaning of a verse and heads towards in other direction.
I already knew this but it seems more elaboration is required for masses.
I'm grateful to you.
RE: You Love One Another As I Have Loved You - John 15:12