Excuse me, why there are always contradictions between people? Especially between loved ones for trivial things. Why is that? Recently I saw an explanation from an outstanding teacher. He said 'If you are hesitating about one thing and at that time the people around you tell you what to do, you may just think, I will choose the opposite.’ For example, you are playing a game and hesitate to help your wife take care of the children. When your wife called you, you might be very angry; another example is that if you were hesitant to get married, but your mother forced[Daily insight 3] why there are always contradictions between people? you to get married, you might even have a fight with your mother. Why? This is because people's inner conflicts are more painful than external interpersonal conflicts. Well, in order to avoid inner pain, we turn it into interpersonal conflict. In this way, we can avoid our own choices, because you will think it is all other people's fault, and we are very comfortable with it. So you see, in essence, we don't have any problems with others, we just stay in our own hesitation and refuse to come out.
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