Our mind is a field, and our thoughts are seeds. Every thought that we have, will eventually grow.
You know that life is unfair and you have been proven that being good and happy constantly is something that cannot be achieved. Even Buddha’s have their days. Your mood is changing depending on the circumstances you are living in and it is very difficult maintaining positive thoughts and vibes all the time.
Even if there is the slightest possibility for life to treat you perfectly, there might be a time where it will hit you hard and take away something which plays a big part in it, a person close to you, a family member, your job, or even your inspiration. On that precise moment your life is going to become miserable and the future is going to seem darker, or even worse you might not acknowledge a future at all. There is going to be a blank feeling in your life, an emptiness.
However…What if, no matter the problem and the situation, there actually existed a magic formula, a magic door? What if that formula and its magic exists within you, and you only need to activate it?
It is you who makes your own destiny, and it is only your own decision on how the future is going to look. The world is more colorful than you actually see it, and there exists energy that flows through and around you. Strong desire and action is enough for changing everything you want. It is up to you and only you to rewrite your future, and you are amongst the people who believe in the saying “our destiny is already written”, then believe that it is meant for you to read this post and practice what you are about to learn.
In this post I am going to talk about happiness which comes through thoughts, words and actions. Those three little words, if used properly, are capable of making your life bright, remarkable and terrific. I am going to analyze in simple steps the way of achieving, becoming and attracting happiness in life.
This is a post about achieving a state of mind which will make you feel light, happy, successful, and loved.
Intro.
Have you ever had bad days which ended up being even worse? Did something bad occurred that made you sad or mad ?
The reason is because you were angry, unable to control your emotions and with your wrong judgement at the time, you faced the problem in a wrong way. You don’t usually understand it, but when a problem occures, it is your reaction –usually a negative one, which is going to influence and affect it to the worst. It is not the problem itself, it is your attitute about it.
Think about a dog that is yapping, if you go close to him, quite possibly he will bite you. If on the other hand you just pass him without paying attention, he will eventually stop.
The point here is, that whatever the situation, it is only your behavior which makes the circumstance a positive or a negative one. To put it simple, only you are capable of influencing your life, so try doing it in a better way.
When you have negative thoughts, negative is what you are about to become and negativity is what you will attract. If someone or something ruins your mood, your mind becomes negative and makes the wrong actions. Moreover, as it was not enough already, your inner voice immediately discourages and stops you from having happy thoughts. It makes you feel worthless, unloved. You are going to face everybody near you in a negative way as well. Then, without realizing it, those thoughts are going to slowly bring you, into a state of misery – which will be poisoning your subconsciousness. You will start complaining about everything, the bad job, the bad luck in your life, your current economic situation, your wrong decisions, and everything else out there. You may even believe that the universe is trying to sabotage you!
When something bad occurs, we immediately fill our existence with negativity. With monsters and beasts! “What am I going to do? How am I going to make it? It’s impossible!”
That much negativity can only attract more of its kind, resulting in making you miserable in your own life. You have to know and accept the fact that it is your blame for almost all the negative things surrounding you simply because you let them happen, or even if you didn't, you for sure attracted them. You may not see or realize how, but you actually did -in the latter chapters you are going to see the how and why analytically.
Eventually, those negative thoughts you produce are going to become capable of destroying love, happiness, families, friendships, relations and everything in your life. After all, the future is depending on the present. Negativity affects your choices and your mind in the present time, therefore you are going to attract and create a negative future. In other words, your future will have the color you choose to paint it with!
If you shut down yourself, or if something fairly so made you shut down your feelings, your hopes and your energy, leave them in the past, because in the past is where they belong. How you are going to attract the goodness if you are staying in the negative past? Focus on the present, and on the delightful future approaching, instead.
When something bad happens you start shutting down your hopes. All you surround yourself with is how incapable you are. If for example you were searching for a job and you couldn’t find one, all you were going to think about is how incapable you are and how you do not deserve anything. Then you would face everything in that moment with a sad and negative feeling. Remember here, life is consisted of moments being connected to each other.
However, just like negative thoughts attract negativism in life and are capable of influencing the present and future, it stands to reason that the positive ones attract positivism in it. Think about it, what it is going to happen if you change the negative thoughts you have; is there actually going to be a change?
Achieving a positive state of mind through thoughts is having positive thoughts even when you are having a hard time. It is a choice of life. Defeating every form of negativism which may happen in your life, it’s the way of staying positive during all circumstances. Instead of thinking the worst scenarios and creating monsters in your head, you will learn to appreciate and be grateful for the beautiful things which happened in the past, the great things which are actually happening right now and the even better ones that are about to happen in the future. With positive thinking, you are going to move upwards on the scale of power. A power you control, a power which will bring content into your life. You are going to make the universe…work for you!
When something good happens, you immediately start making plans and think of more and better situations which could happen. Even a simple tea you are going to drink will seem perfect to you. You get enthusiastic and delighted! Fairly so, you begin designing your future with the best possible scenarios feeling relaxed and joyful. Everything is going to seem peaceful and for a moment a divine feeling is going to surround your whole being. Moreover that positive mood of yours is strong enough to make the entire day move in accordance to it. Not only are you going to design your future with colors in it, but you will have the tools to cope with everyone and everything in the present as well. Even people on the road might seem in a better mood and happier in general.
When having a positive mood, everything surrounding you will become positive as well. You will be attracting it. Think about it. Think of something which made you really happy, and think about the good things which followed. Is it a coincidence or is it attractiveness?