Party is a normal life, work, study, play are likely to have a party.Many people are happy to attend parties, while others are afraid of them.There are two reasons why people are afraid of parties. One is that they are introverted and afraid to communicate with others.
The other is that they are tired of social customs and hate the flaunt wealth in parties.Japanese writer haruki murakami is also an extreme party phobe.I have all kinds of weaknesses as a person, but most of them are rituals, speeches and parties.If all three come together, as they often do, it is a nightmare.
Why is haruki murakami afraid of parties and queues?Haruki murakami can attend a ceremony, make a speech in a few words, and talk and laugh with others at a party as usual.However, if forced to do so, the feeling of fatigue will be gushed out afterwards, often unable to start work for half a day, so murakami as far as possible to avoid all kinds of occasions in public.Murakami haruki think quiet writing is the novelist's duty, not to all the people are smiling face, this is murakami haruki life a major principle.
The most important thing for a writer is the reader.Once you decide to give your best face to the reader, the only alternative is to say "sorry" and forget about it.Murakami also does not attend the wedding because it is meaningless to him and interferes with his writing life.Unless attending a wedding can make the couple happy forever, murakami doesn't feel the need to attend.Mr. Murakami recalls partying, but none of it was enjoyable.Literary parties, in particular, are generally boring.Haruki murakami would rather fight a giant one-horned fairy in a dark, damp cave with his bare hands than attend a party.Mr. Murakami thought the ideal party would be this:There were between ten and fifteen men, all talking in whispers;Nobody exchanged business CARDS or talked about work;In one corner of the room, a string quartet dutifully played Mozart;The Siamese cat, who is not afraid of people, sleeps comfortably on the sofa.The delicious pinot noir has been opened;From the terrace one looks out to the sea at night, where a half-moon is amber;The breeze brought infinite fragrance, and a wise and beautiful middle-aged woman in a velvet evening dress kindly explained to me the breeding method of ostriches in detail.
So the party was supposed to be free and comfortable, with everyone doing what they loved and talking about fun experiences, not about work and peer pressure and self-esteem.The environment of the party should also be close to nature, moonlight sea breeze flowers from our soul through.The content of the party is easy-going and comfortable. Everyone can find something to talk about from the life experience. Everyone can feel happiness and sorrow from the experience of others.This is the party that non-partiers want to attend.