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The consequences of annoying parents
Imam Tabran and Imam Ahmad narrated an incident. In the era of the Prophet (pbuh) a young man lived in Al-Qamaa in Al-Madinah. Throughout Prayer, fasting and charity, he used to be very patient in worshiping God Tea. Once he was attacked by a serious disease. His wife sent a message to the Prophet (pbuh) that, 'My Sama alkaama is in a state of misery. O Messenger of Allah, I thought it necessary to inform you of his situation. The Prophet (pbuh) immediately sent Hadrat Ammar, Suhaib and Bilal (R) to him. He told them that he should go to him and read him in Kalemaye Shahadat They went and found Alkama lying dead.
So they started trying to teach him the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). But he could not pronounce the Kalima in any way. Necessarily, they sent a message to the Prophet (peace be upon him) that Kalima is not pronounced in the face of alkama. To the person who had taken this news, the Prophet (peace be upon him) asked him: 'Is anyone alive in Almaq's parents?' He said, 'O Messenger of Allah, only his mother is aliveThe Messenger of Allah (সা) immediately sent him to Alakma's mother and said: Tell him that if you can go to the Prophet (s), then let's wait, wait, he is coming to meet youWhen the Prophet (peace be upon him) came in contact with the mother of the alkama, according to what he had said, Alkama's mother said: "Give my life for the sake of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him)." I would rather go to him. The old sticks came to the Prophet (SA) with a stick and greeted him. The Prophet (peace be upon him) replied with Salam: "O mother of Alaqama, tell me the truth."
And if they tell a lie, then it will come to me from Allah. Tell me, what was the character of your son Alakma? "The old woman said," Allah's Apostle, he used to offer many prayers, fasting and charity. The Prophet (সা) said: What is your attitude towards him? The old man said, "I am displeased with him." The Prophet (সা) said, "Who is it?" The old woman said, "He used to give his wife priority over me and disobeyed my order.The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: The tongue of Alakma has become obscured by the words of Kalamah, because of the displeasure of the mother of Alam. Then the Prophet (সা) said, 'Bilal, go, bring me a large quantity of wood.'
The old woman said, "What will the Messenger of Allah do with the wood?The Prophet (সা) said: "I will burn him with fire." The old man said, "This is the Messenger of Allah." Fire my son in front of me. I will not be able to bear it. "The Prophet (peace be upon him) said," O mother of Alaqama, Allah's torment is even stronger and lasting. Now if you wish that Allah forgive your son, forgive him and be pleased with him. If you are unhappy with Allah, then you will not benefit from the prayer of fasting and charity.
Alkama's mother said, "Allah's Messenger ( ) said," I am pleased with Allah Almighty, the angels of Allah, and all the Muslims present here, that I am pleased with my son Alakma. "The Prophet said," Hey Bilal, Go near Look, he can say La-ilaha illallah. Because I think that Alakma's mother has told me the right thing without putting any shame on me. Hazrat Bilal (R) went immediately. I heard that Alqama is loudly from the inside of the house, it is said that Allah-Allah-Allah-Allah Bilal then entered the house and said to the crowds: "Listen, because Alkma's mother was unhappy, she could not utter Kalima.
After he was satisfied, his tongue was able to pronounce the Kalima. Then Alkama died on that day and the Prophet (PBUH) himself came and ordered his bath and shroud, recited the funeral prayer and became a part of the funeral. Then standing in his grave, the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Ansar and emigrants! The curse of Allah, the angels and all the people on the one who gives priority to his wife on the mother! Allah will not accept any intercession on his behalf. Reward only will be found only if he pleases him with repentance and goodness to his mother. Remember, God's satisfaction with mother's satisfaction and mother's dissatisfaction with mother's displeasure.