…continued… from part 1, part 2, part 3, and part 4.
She definitely has to continue with her studies later and she will be looked at differently; which is why she needs every support she can get right now from the guy. His opinion counts better at a time as this, so is his love and support.
After all these and the baby come, the lady gets back into school and things come down a little bit, what is the plan? They need to be able to reach a reasonable conclusion as to how to do things properly. The last post I shared where the guy got a lady with a questionable character pregnant, I think the case is not with this lady here, so I would advise marriage should be in the offing for these two. Many their baby can be the ring bearer at that time too, hahaha.
On the sideline, I think the guy should assume more responsibilities. That is what comes with such a territory like this. That is the price he must pay for such a mistake. Even though he has a supportive father, or let me say in this case, since he has supportive fathers, he shouldn’t assume they will always help out. There are some things he must do which he shouldn’t run to them before he can do them. This is why this lady won’t be filled with utter regrets when she sees the efforts this young man is putting in just to atone for their mistakes.
The mistake happened, yes but it shouldn’t put their dreams on hold. They should be the best of what they want to be. The limit is only in their minds and they can be limited only to the extent at which they allow it. Having a child doesn’t mean you cannot dream, it only means you have to go extra length to achieve them. That is the price to pay for such a mistake as this.
In life you may not get what you paid for but you will surely pay for what you get.
He needs to protect his girlfriend with his body actions and his words too. They both need to focus on their studies before the issue of marriage can suffice. Thank God they both have wonderful mothers, so their child (ren) would be in safe hands, but he still need to start earning some money on the side.
THE END.
Thank you for your time.
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Still me,
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