The belief that un forgiving erased the offense from memory and somehow reestablishing the bond with that person who had hust me so completely is totally false.
Many people confuse forgiving with re-believing the people who offended them, assaulted,robbed,lied etc...
And that they must make the lino with that person to demonstrate that they hace really succeded un making the proccess of forgivenss. Forgiveness is a liberanting procesos because it allows you to close al negative emotions that arise when we feel abused in some aspect of our life, such as anger,sadness, fear, resentment, frustration and others. When you forgive it means that you left the offense un the past. Not that forgot about it and you realize it when you remember it and you do not have all those negative feelings, but fours on the learning that l leave that experience. Forgiveness is liberating not because it absolves the ofender of your responsability, but allows you to leave the past behind to vibrate with another energy more linked to the harmony and tranquility that gives you to be at peace with yoursulf to continue with your life un my casé forgiving predisposed me to more receptive, with the bet in the future and not in what had happened in the past.