If a child has a family leaves us, it is our turn to think of ourselves. That is to draw closer to God who is almighty and spend time with our partner to pray and give thanks because one of us will go first and the survivor only saves as a memory then.
The time will come to walk to the door is difficult, while still able to walk to several places to remind us of the greatness of God. Don't bother thinking about children excessively, they will be able to try on their own. Children have been given sustenance and responsibilities that we cannot understanding.
tips:
Look for pairs that are like mirrors, we are happy he is happy, we are sad he is sad. Don't look for another metal-like pair behind another.