Sometimes in our lives, we blame others for the negativities that come to us, forgetting that they are the fruits of the bad seeds we have sown. Such bad happenings are not impositional but rather invited happenings since we are the cause of them. This state of invitation gives room for the negativities to stay, causing pains that never heal.
Invitational Pains that haunt us physically, mentally, and emotionally for the wrong we did in the past are the returns of the offenses we have done against others.
Honestly, such pains hardly heal even if we are forgiven. Sometimes the pains double and other times they triple, exposing us to the feeling been in the shoes of those we hurt.
They expose our minds to painful thoughts making us swear never to commit such offenses again if there could have been the possibility of turning back the hands of time.
As the pains of infliction on others by us were done in different ways so are their consequences on us would happen in different ways.
We have no choice to decide been ready or not when such pains arrive in our lives. Our forgiveness is likely possible and could never escape the reality of this cursed pains but to live with them till our last breath.
This article is originally authored by me, (Acheampong Emmanuel) excluding the image.
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