1) Quarrel without reasons or cause
Our lives with our spouses (beloved wives) in the household do not always go well. Sometimes debates outside the home are swept into the mind so that they get carried away into domestic life. Sometimes this is what suddenly makes us quarrel with our partners for no apparent reason. If this happens, immediately resolve the problem before everything worsens. For me this is one of the hard periods I have ever faced when navigating a household ark is the quarrel like this.
2) Financial Problem
Money is not everything and it is not a problem, but if we want to think defiantly, many things are needed by couples who need money. When we don't have money to live for, then this will be a problem. When economic conditions do not support the necessities of life, then it becomes the most difficult time in our lives. Indeed, we don't bring money to death, but no money, it feels like going to die.
So look for a decent partner in the sense of not a couple who is more concerned with assets and understand our financial condition.
3) Boredom
Boredom has become part of human nature. Love can not always burn. Sometimes there is a feeling of being bored even though both of them (married couples) have lived together for years. That is truly natural in our lives as humans. But we also need to overcome it by trying new things or trying with keywords so that the marriage relationship is not in vain.
4) Sex problems
Although some people consider sex to be a taboo thing. But in sex marriage this is an important factor for the survival of the household. For example, decreased libido or passionate love will be a serious problem for couples. If you experience this problem, it is immediately treated alone or handled with a sex therapist.
5) Children grow up
Children are a gift of god for those who are married. The presence of children becomes pride and happiness in household life.
No matter how old our children is, we as parents will always think of them as our children. This is often a source of conflict between parents and children. Conflict between children and parents also includes the most difficult period in our lives. So, improve parent and child relationships so that it does not become a problem in the future.
Those are various difficult times that often occur in domestic life. If you also experience this problem, then finish immediately so that it doesn't become a more severe problem in the future.