It is more important than ever to recognize this. Because in this day and age, we deny pain and do our best to protect ourselves. It's good to be happy.
Crying, sadness, and disappointment are not very good. You almost have to apologize for it. That's why most people try to hide it.
We usually only share the good parts of life. So it's easy to get the impression that your friends and acquaintances are living a wonderful life without pain or disappointment, and if you go against your karma for his life, you'll feel so poor and small.
And you have the impression that you are the only one who suffers, so suffering is abnormal. Something is wrong.
But suffering is part of the life of each of us. Even the rich and famous suffer in life. Even your perfect colleague or boyfriend so good for all women.
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Each of us experiences pain and suffering. Because it's part of life.
That's what you can learn.
Life is full of pain, trouble and stupidity.
you have to deal with it
And accepting that it's part of life makes it easier to deal with. To understand the difference between joy and happiness, there must be suffering.
Because light can be seen only where there is shadow and darkness. Suffering is therefore a powerful reminder to enjoy life and savor the beautiful and joyful moments.