i am simply as responsible as you. I made a facebook profile. without a doubt i have had one for awhile now. there is things i really like approximately it. it's smooth to stay in touch with people. i've got friends from excessive college, acquaintances, vintage flings, antique friends, business associates, you call it. And being the clever ass that i am, i like to send offensive, and funny (but generally offensive) remarks to human beings's pics and profile walls.
I don't spend lots time on it - in fact, i might say i'm without a doubt quite on the whole facebook issue. i'm now not very proactive at including pals or staying involved. it's simply kinda... there. but I understand a variety of people who get virtually into it and spend plenty of time doing unnecessary facebook crap. it's like a interest for the hundreds. And it can get addicting. i've dated girls who spent entire DAYS messing "playing on facebook." I dated one female who posted 9 - nine - feedback on my profile wall. and she wasn't a psycho - she simply didn't have whatever else to do!
i was a big computer nerd. In fact, I nonetheless am, but now i exploit the laptop to make money and run my enterprise. but i have completed the WoW issue, and the porn thing, and the instant message issue... The laptop is a tool which could easily waste too much of your time - surely any quantity of time wasted is too much, but hey, we are all human.
one of the matters that I suppose is genuinely bad approximately facebook is the whole "including friends" component. there may be this perception that it looks horrific in case you do not have lots of buddies. The ironic aspect is that the majority who've large friend lists are not honestly buddies with maximum of those human beings. but they may appearance people up on fb absolutely to appear like they've more pals.
this is extremely not unusual amongst girls - I just read a piece of writing about it honestly. some quack-psychologist is asking it "fb buddies syndrome" or some thing equally retarded. however his factor is that ladies get hooked on adding buddies to facebook because they are insecure socially - they are social approval-seekers. And in case you've been reading this text before, what I think about approval-searching for. however it's a special story when it comes to ladies.
girls are smaller and typically weaker than men (glaringly there are exceptions). Plus they're susceptible sexually - they're those who get penetrated and must cope with a infant in their frame for nine months. so they need protection - some sense of safety. and they get it from 'power in numbers.' through the millennium of evolution, girls have evolved to are trying to find help - electricity in numbers - via social networking. This has result in a sturdy mental wiring that makes them are looking for out affiliation and approval from others.
think about this - if a girl is disliked via people she meets, she has no help group, no person to help her if she is threatened bodily. The scenario is worse if she receives pregnant. No glaringly this is not as massive a difficulty for a lady in 2008 as it became, say 3000 years in the past. however evolution is gradual - the wiring remains there.
Now why am I telling you all this? nicely to begin with, i'm telling you the way not to suppose. Do no longer get stocked into the approval in search of game. if you don't know what approval seeking seems like, examine your state and teach of thought when you are on fb including and confirming pals to your "list." Secondly, you could leverage women's excessive need for approval, by now not no longer GIVING IT TO THEM. you see, most men right away give ladies their approval by means of in search of IT FROM THE lady