Family know no bounds when it comes to manipulation !!!!my birth mother for example . No one would go visit her ,so she devised a plan .her bf would call us and cry on the phone saying our mother was dying .so my siblings and I arrived at the hospital and she lay motionless on her xtra large hospital bed .anyways ,I had to go back to grab something I left behind and low and behold !!!she up and talking ......... memories of my mother ...