Hard times will pass.....things and situations will change.....may become better.....may become worst...... amidst all this chaos of situation and hard times ...what if the person goes away.....what if when things become favorable....the people are no more...... why can't you help them have what they desire today...make their life easier.....this is a feeling of helplessness that can never be overcome.....
Interestingly, some special people make our lives easier for us, help us in everything from dressing ourselves to walking and educating us. When we grow up and start our family....why is it that we cannot provide for them as they provided for us....... Is this the vicious circle of life? Is this justice?
Do we forget their needs or do our needs become more important? It is happening in one family it is happening globally...Parents are being ignored...or taken for granted...... In many places, they are being sent to old homes...... why is this trend gaining momentum.......in the Asian culture, girls get married and believed to be no longer responsible for their parents. the complete responsibility falls on the son's shoulder....and if there are 2 to 3 sons.... one of them is more responsible...... while the others struggle to make the ends meet.... how can we change this custom culture or trend...... more ideas, and solutions need to be circulated....more thought is needed. Parents don't want to become a burden on their children...but old age is cruel for some it comes gracefully but to some, it is horrifying.....with Alzheimer's, Parkinson, dementia, or Osteoarthritis.
This is human nature, thinking about something for so long, trying to come up with a solution but unfortunately, we feel like we are being dragged down a deep tunnel with no help and no way out. No light, no one to depend on. Have you felt the same...how did you manage your way out?
The feeling of Helplessness throws one into a deep tunnel with no way out, no light, and no support.