As a middle school teacher, I have dealt with the aftermath of this abuse. Then when meeting with parents, the first words out of their mouths is, I cannot control my child and I do not even know who they are anymore. Parenting with compassion and by respecting all involved is a great way to begin with the end in mind. What kind of relationship do you want to have with your children? Fear-ridden and out-lashing or respectful and loving. Great post!
RE: The Evolution of Parenting