Most human illustrations come from nature and our environment. When a rose flower blossoms, it does not tilt like the stem bent by the wind or leaves that are continually flapping. It stands in elegance until is plucked or it begins to wither. A woman is like the rose flower in many aspects. She is radiant, elegant and attractive because her worth is pretty clear to see. The question is, why does the present day Lady prefer to bend when trying to get attention? Even a flower cannot be noticed if it's petals are bent face down. Why then would a girl, priceless,let herself be bent and used unnecessarily and most times by those who do not deserve her. Recently, in a lodge around my school,everyone came out to stop a young man flogging his girlfriend with a belt. He had beaten her already and wasn't satisfied, all for what? She gave his spoon to a neighbour whom he suspected had an eye for her. If she didn't give herself to live with him even when they were not married, he would have cherished every moment with her.
Come on ladies, if you are a wife to every man you date, why would he commit himself to marriage when there is nothing more to look forward to? When a child runs after you for chocolates and you give it to him ,he doesn't keep chasing after you. He sticks with the chocolate and you can travel if you like. He will only remember you again when the chocolate is finished and he needs another. Know what? The good news is that we can actually get back some of what we lost; unfortunately, not all. An adage says that what an elder sees while sitting, a child cannot see even if he climbs an iroko tree. Let's learn to embrace and not discard those lessons our mothers taught us because when we leave the comfort and the protection of our homes,those lessons guide our path rightly in a wicked world.keep your chocolate, flaunt your qualities and make him aware of the treasures in you. That has always been the secret. Your character and personality are package enough to wrap whatever sexual gratification you can offer. If he appreciates the package, he will come officially for it and all that comes within and we all know what that means, wedding bells princess,wedding bells. Love and respect who you are and who God has made you. Have this self-worth and understand your purpose as a woman. Understand the fact that man has dominion over the earth and as he manages the things around him,you manage him.