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Relationship is an association between two bodies. In what we are going to discuss about , we limit the relationship to two different parties. The by-product of every relationship is success or gain. Remember even failure is a function of success.
Now I will narrow this to some particular relationship, this will be with respect to relationship between a male and a female. Many a times our happiness depends on who is by our side. Its really a very big issues because not only will you be down for hours/weeks/months but also the life of others around you will be in danger…..(for example if a nurse got hurt by the lover, the patient may at the end receive the negative effects)
By default, we all seek for a perfect life for both ourself and our love one, but sometimes due to human nature of unsatisfied behaviour, we all put first in consideration the things we need and end up using the other person as the supplier, in all ,we lack a healthy relationship.
A healthy relationship should always be commutative. Since relationship is of symbiosis which is a close associations between two species. But even as we move in, not all are healthy.
Symbiosis are of three types
Commensalism
Mutualism
Parasitism
All relationship must be of one type and not all are healthy. I think it's time to promote and take the path of healthy relationship. Some people move into relationship only for what they will gain, many even seek to know how rich that man or lady is before accepting him or her in any form of relationship.
And the question is, who will like to lose?
Commensalism
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A commensalism is a type of relationship where one obtains all his or her needs from another person (partner).
In this relationship, (using lady as an example), the lady gains all from the man, because the man have enough to give out. At the end the man never lacks, the lady in question never contribute to the man's life (sexually, spiritually, educationally or otherwise) but never at the same time hurts the man .
Commensalism as a form of relationship is healthy at a short run but not advisable for a long run. This form of association is good for “helpers” or “initial wooing”.
Parasitism
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This is a relationship between a parasite and a host. Its one of the unhealthy association of highest order.
It is a relationship in which one suck and milk the other partner . it is fully a merit for one and a demerit for the other.
This type of relationship must be highly discouraged at every point. Many found themselves existing in this type of relationship and thus have no plan , future, direction or focus .
All they work for ends in the purse of another each and every month.
Parasitism do not only puts the person in great danger of non existing but also puts the family and those around in the same field with an intended psycho.
If I have a say, I will suggest 3 months in prison for partners (especially the host) who practice parasitism.
Mutualism
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Finally we encouraged the masses to always practice mutualism.
Mutualism is a type of relationship where both partners gains from the association. Mutualism is not only healthy for the partners but extends healthiness to their countries or families at large.
The merits maybe spiritual, educational, mentally, financially , sexually, etc.
For students in this type of relationship, its all about success in education, those forming pastors, it's a nice form because there will always be a contribution from another.
Its time we consider not just us but those around us in any relationship we found ourselves.
Many questions we need to ask:
Like - what are the merits or demerits in this relationship
- What type of relationship is this
- Is the relationship define by gain or by love.
As you make your bed, so you shall sleep and wake up on it. Hugs you all.
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