There was this one time a former colleague knew that I was finally single so he started texting me and I was like oh hello there old friend so he invited me to hangout with him and my other colleagues so I was like oh cool I’ve never been outside in a long time cos I got super depressed and lost connections with some friends so yeah after my gym we could.
A little backstory: He knows I am some one-of-the-boys type so he knows I’m always cool with hanging out with guys often. Though I hang out with girls too or with genderless or gay or whatever your gender is. We were also able to hang out quite a few times before, too.
So after the Muay Thai session at the gym, I went to see them and talk to them. Was nice seeing friends again after my depressive months. We were just talking normally. No clues that I was interested romantically or some shit.
After that, this guy was still texting me nonstop and was insisting I take the painting he made for me. He wanted me to pick it up the very next day and I refused because I need to be with my best friend at that time. He started becoming an asshole, saying if you don’t pick this up I will throw this at the sea or burn it. Well of course I just said Just burn it I don’t give a fuck because what’s up with the attitude?
Then he started saying things like I really like you and that Our love will last forever or something like that I don’t remember much. Well I was weirded out because why the fuck did he think I was interested in him when it was literally fucking obvious I just wanted a friend???
I told him to get the fuck off cos I I’m not interested and blocked him.
Days after that, while I was training at the gym, this fucker texted me using his friend’s account I’m outside the gym like how the fuck did he know I was at the gym and that this was the gym I go to? Of course I got paranoid cos he stalking me??? He became a threat to my security so I called my friend to pick me up cos who knows what this meth addict might do.
So what makes the guys think we are interested in them just because we talk to them? Didn’t you even know how to read body languages? Did we even show some signs that we might like you? If not, then she not interested. Bruh get over yourself.
And there’s another guy I talked to the other week and is now saying I’m interesting? Okay wait, dude, I literally talked to you for 5 minutes and no I’m not interested in anything so stop pushing it. How bold of some guys to assume we want some of their dicks when all we did was to talk to them? We’re not even talking about our personal life in our conversations and next thing we know they be texting cos they think we want some free taste of their small dicks.
Dudes. We girls can talk to the opposite sex without wanting to kiss them. Who said we can only hang out with fellow girls and if we hang out with guys it automatically means we want some of their foreskins? I hate how they can’t even read body languages. Learn to read bro. It’s easy. Stop assuming we like you just because we talked to you.
Stop assuming we like you just because we talked to you
Stop assuming we like you just because we talked to you
Seriously if you didn’t get it, you lack some brain cells needed to comprehend basic shit
Also, no means no.
Get the fuck off literally means get the fuck off like geez these guys just afraid of rejections.