For you sister, know that hijrah is not only changing the appearance of a more closed and more beautiful, because actually moving is to be better than yesterday.
Whether it's the state of heart, morality, faith, and our obedience to His rules. Then, when you have been given the opportunity to migrate for the better, then make sure you are truly in the process of moving you.
Istiqamah is guarding yourself in goodness, keep your heart and morality so that you are always in His blessing, and what Allah does not like, then do not try.
Remember, hijrah does not only change appearance, but how do you think your outer appearance has become better always in harmony with the state of your heart.
Difficult? Yes, the name of trying to get better does need a struggle, need patience, and need sincerity. So make sure you are always alert to not give up.
And if the self is solid for more syar'ie, then try your heart and morality according to the rules of the Shari'ah, control yourself not to return to the path Allah has forbidden.
Improve your morality, so that you are noble before God and before other humans. Because when you are good and always work better, anyone who sees you will treat you well.
After all, what Allah values you is not just your closed clothes, but the state of your heart and morality, because if your heart is good then your external circumstances will also be good.
Because the heart is always full of goodness, then it will monitor the behavior of its owner always in goodness, always in the rules that God has set.
Yes, if your heart really refers to God, you are truly close to God, then your rules will never be ignored.
Why? Because what is certain is only Allah's blessing that you always expect in every moment, so that to turn away from Him you will not be able to.
So when you migrate and learn to always be istiqamah, make sure it's not just the state of your clothes that you are talking about.
But your heart and your heart are perishing to improve, control what is your right and wise action, so that your hijrah will truly bring you on the path to His heaven.