Marriage is said to be an institution of endless lessons that must be taken with caution and perseverance by all means. Once married, it's never a good idea to divorce or decide to remarry because you might not know the kind of woman or man your prospective partner might later be. Though men are polygamous in nature, some are able to marry more than one wife provided they're capable of taking full responsibilities. Despite that, love and marriage is a beautiful thing in life. So to this measure, your purpose of marrying a man or a woman should never be primarily tied to the following reasons below if you really want to have a peaceful and successful marital life embedded with genuine love and intimacy.
1. Physical appearance or physique
Research shows that many of most handsome and beautiful guys and ladies respectively are not well cultured. Despite the fact that a guy is good looking, tall and handsome doesn't mean he's likely compatible with you. Please don't get my statement misinterpreted as physical beauty have a desirable role to play in a relationship. Love and marriage goes beyond physical looks. Some desirable virtues and characteristics are expected to be put into account when making a life choice for marriage. Rather than the outward beauty, the inward beauty which talks about the character must be first assessed beyond reasonable doubts for test compatibility.
2. Wealth or Riches
If the reason you're loving someone is tied to his/her wealth, please rethink. When someone loves you because you're been supportive, there's tendency the person will stop loving you when the constant support is not forth coming as usual. When there's a reason to love, then there will definitely be a reason not to love. Safe yourself the stress of a future heart break if the reason he/she is loving you is due to your financial status.
3. Being Hilarious
It's usually fun to come across someone that keeps you accompanied most especially when it comes to the fact that he/she is funny and jovial or social. To be social is a desirable personality traits, but it's better to socialize without passing beyond one's boundaries. Been hilarious is a good virtue but shouldn't be the primary criteria to look up to for marriage.
4. Marrying because everyone around you is getting married
This is one of the most common mistakes among ladies especially. We all came to this world at different times and we'll definitely leave this world at different times. Never put urself on pressure to get married because people around you are getting married. There's a saying that goes that "If you rush into marriage, you'll definitely rush out of it. So carefully and prayerfully take your time to study that guy or lady with you before deciding on marriage because a broken pays better than a broken home.
5. You want to have a big party
Having the feel that your party will be bigger than someone elses' marriage party should not be the reason to rush into marriage. Cut your coat according to your cloth and never use someone's template to work. It's not must to have the best wedding party so far because that will never determine success in your marital life. Be contented and be a plan builder with your partner. Understand with him and plan properly in order not to lay the cart before the bag.
6. Thinking Marriage will fix the problem in your relationship
The ideology that marriage will fix or compensate for the loop holes in your relationship is totally ironical and wrong. Marriage is never the solution in solving the problems in your relationship. So, be wise.
7. Beause you want a golden ring
Getting married to someone because you want a golden on your finger is not idealistic. It's better you go buy yourself a golden ring than making it as your priority for marriage. Please be cautious and know that your love and marriage to your spouse worth more than gold or ruppies.
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