Being merciful and refuses to get angry unnecessary is what I learnt from my mum.
In 2019 something Happened that could have gotten my mother angry, but she was merciful, she decided not to think about it and get angry but accepted peace to reign.
This was what happened, she order, for a refrigerator that she would be using in her shop in cooling drink, preserving foods and all the rest, the refrigerator was to be delivered in two days time but the agent refuses to deliver it to her but rather run away with her money.
We called and called and called but he refuses to answers his phone, we did not know to do, then I asked my mum that it would be good if we reports it to the police let they handle it for us but my mom said no, that it is not necessary, telling me not to worry that he would surely bring back her money or the refrigerator as was the item she order for purchase.
Few weeks has passed and we heard nothing of him, then one faithful morning around 7: 45 AM, my mum phone rang and she answered it, it was the agent that called, he start to telling us that he got into a terrible incident that causes him to looses his money, that he was Robbed, that he was nearly killed, and what my mum could said was I am so sorry for what happened to you, I thought it as much, that you are not such a person, the agent replied that first thing in the morning he would delivered the refrigerator to our store and here was the next day he delivered it as said.
Now , I am being so much impacted by the way my mum handle situations, she does not get angry so easy, she tends to know what causes your changes of plans, she understands peoples more than I do then I am being impacted and I have joined her ways of operations.