Hello everyone in the Family & Friends community. I am Thanh Tuan and this is the first time that I connect with guys here. I'm thrilled to have found this community and look forward to becoming a member. I hope that my articles and shares reach everyone and receive widespread support in the near future.
Do you have any questions about the title of this article? I was conflicted and unsure whether to write this article and share it with everyone. Because my father died three months ago. 🖤
It was a beautiful sunny day with a blue sky on Sunday. I have an extra-curricular schedule every Sunday morning. At 7 a.m., I left the house for class. Everything was going swimmingly until I received a phone call from an uncle - a friend of my father's. The other end of the call said, "Your father was in an accident and died." I froze and couldn't say anything. It was like a bucket of ice water had been thrown at me. I had no idea what to do; I had never expected this to happen. I understand that everyone's life has a beginning and an end, but I didn't expect it to come so soon for my father when he was only 46 years old.
Time has flown by, and today marks three and a half months since my father died. My father is a construction contractor who has never had a moment to himself in his entire life. Perhaps rice, money, family, and children are always a burden on every parent's shoulders. My family consists of four siblings, with me being the middle child. My father was always concerned about us, but the day before I started 10th grade, I got into an argument with him because he wouldn't let me participate in extracurricular activities with my friends. I'm sorry for what I did to my father. Despite his short temper, Dad never reprimanded me. My family's life is now like being in a hot oil bath. My mother is becoming increasingly quiet, while my sister is frequently irritated over trivial matters and occasionally tears up easily. I know it's a difficult time, but I feel helpless. I try to study, but I can't seem to focus. This is terrible. 🖤
So, I want to say to everyone, let's spend time talking to your parents and spending more time at home while they are with you. I miss my father. Dad, I miss you! 💔
I want to share my thoughts with everyone even though my post today is pretty negative. I'm sorry about this. I need some advice from everyone if possible. I'm grateful for that. Thank you for taking the time to read my post today. It's great to finally meet everyone.