Living in the same room with family is a very good and lovely thing because if you all live together, the love between you increases. I realised this when one of my family members attended a family gathering or a function. At that time, I felt very lonely because I had a habit of staying with my parents, and when you are used to staying with someone and if they suddenly go out for a few days or go out for some work, then you start feeling weird. I did not like it when the whole house was empty. For three days, I also missed my mother's cooking a lot because she used to cook very nice food, and then I had to cook my food, and at that time, my food was not even worth eating.
Only then did I realise how important it is to stay with family. If we have any problems, we can tell our family members and share our problems and lighten our minds. Those last three days felt strange to me because I used to stay alone all day. Yes, my friends used to come to play house with me, but they also used to leave at night, so I had to stay alone all night, and I used to feel scared because I had this habit since childhood.
This habit of staying with my parents gradually developed so much in me that if I don't stay with them in today's time, I feel that if no one is there, even for a short while, I have to stay back due to my exams, which made the house feel even emptier during those days. Then I was feeling very lonely. Nothing felt joyful without them around, and I was only remembering my mother's food, and even the small arguments with my sister felt like moments I missed. I was remembering all that.
I will also advise you to always stay with your family members because when you stay with your parents, if there is any tension, I believe that the tension does not go away for long. After all, as long as you are with your parents, you will not be able to do much. If you are alone, then your financial decision will also get a little messed up, but if you are with your family members, then you will be able to discuss it with everyone.
You will be able to ask everyone how to do it, so there is an importance of staying with family. It also happens that you will get to discuss how it will happen. Yes, everyone has their own opinion, and after listening to everyone's opinion, there will be a final decision, which will be for the better.
There is a very beautiful reason why a family stays together, and that is when our memories are created. We eat together, laugh and cry together. We do everything together and share our joys and sorrows. We watch movies at night. Sitting together, then if we are going to do something small, it will remind us of all these things later. All those photos will remind us.
All these become like lifetime memories. Later on, everyone will have to listen to their different things. We will have to go to another city for our job, and then we may have to live away from our parents for career growth. But there is a compulsion. I believe that because if you are not able to make a good decision at the right time, then it can affect your career too, so if you are compelled, then you will have to go somewhere else to earn money in some other city.
If you live with your family members, you feel secure and supported because sometimes there comes a time when there is a huge medical emergency, and nobody will be there to support you at that time. If you live with your family members, everyone will go to the hospital together. They will take care of you. Mummy will cook food for you and bring it. Papa will take care of you carefully, and your sister will give you medicines from time to time. This makes a family a protector and assures you that if you ever get sick, your family members will always be with you.
Lastly, I would like to say that if you live with your family members and especially if you used to live with your parents, it is like a blessing because many people go through such a time when they don't live with their family members and they have a lot of problems. I have seen it with my own eyes. If someone falls ill, their mother doesn't come. If their father is not with them for some work, then there is some financial decision or some personal decision.
You people have to take it alone, then yes, all these things are very problematic. If you live alone. If you live with your family members, then the solution to many problems is found among us only, so I would think that if you live with your parents, you don't have any problems. If you are not compelled to do so, then live with them. If there is any compulsion that yes, I have to go out for work or I have to go somewhere else for my career, then if you are splitting due to compulsion, it can be understood. But there is no compulsion. Then never choose to distance yourself from your family unnecessarily.