Back in the Time
If you could go back in time and give your younger self 3 pieces of advice, what age would you choose to visit yourself at? What wisdom do you choose to impart, and why?
Time is never waiting for anyone, it’s very precious and a beautiful gift. Whenever, we are wasting our time behind something we do not realise it at the current time when it’s needed but later on we do have regrets and can’t turn back the time. Once the time is ruined there is also a probability of getting my life ruined through it. In my opinion we can’t control time and the beginning and ending of time does not exist so do not ever think to waste it.
In my life I have made many wrong decisions and I have regrets. I can’t change my past but it has left a great impact in my life. Whatever happens it happens for a good reason but it’s not always a true fact. I didn’t utilize my time when it was needed the most. Whenever I was going through a hard time, I would have always wished for a time machine so that I can return and fix the things which made me cry. It’s saddening and it’s the reality past can’t be changed but present can be changed and my choice is gonna make up for my future self.
I also think that those damages has helped me to become a better person and find my true self. If those things didn’t happen maybe then I would not be this much successful. I got what I wanted maybe at the cost of pain. If I was not in pain then I would not be working soo hard so yeah I don’t think that my past experience is bad only because of my luck but actually it happened so I can do something better and give my best. If my life was smooth then maybe I won’t be standing here and I would be a normal citizen who just lives her daily life without any problems but no adventures or any experiences.
The real question is that do I really want to change my past? My answer would be “no” because if I can change it then I might lose those people in my life who are invaded into my heart and can’t be erased. So, yeah I don’t want to change my past because I don’t want to lose them at all. I can’t lose them to achieve something which I can’t even think of in my imagination. They will forget me or I might never end up into their lives.
But if I could go back in time then I would go back to the time when I was 14 years old. Because that’s the age from where I needed some guidance. If I had given some guidance to myself then many things would have changed and sufferings in life maybe it could be less which I have faced before.
I would request my younger self not to trust anyone. I would prefer to doubt everyone and come to an conclusion after seeing the actions and not trusting the words.
Never beg to anyone for anything, if it’s in my destiny then it shall be mine. If someone wants to leave then let them go. So, stop crying for others love and care.
Don’t ever let anyone disrespect myself. Always stand out logically but never stay quite. When there is no respect then there is no space in the room to stay so, it would be better to take my leave instead of tolerating.
The wisdom I would choose to impart is that I would try to convince myself to always be part of good things be kind and never take interest in what others do in addition always believe in myself that I can do it. I can do anything if I have the will. Because there have been times when I am not a forgiving person and I have felt bad about it later so, I want to be more and more kind now as a person and try not to make anyone sad. I want to grow a good human being with ethics. Sometimes, I did think of others having fun and I am not which have bothered me but it took me long time to understand that I will get what is written in my destiny and no one can steal it from me. So, I want my younger self to understand those facts so, that I can be more stronger than I am now. Anyways, I am still growing and trying my best to be a good person. If I get the chance to change something in my past then it’s good but even if I can’t it’s good too I have no complaints now. Well, yeah when I am sad I would think of travelling back but now I don’t think of it like that. It just happens for a moment and then the feelings disappear.
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