Misunderstanding

Misunderstanding is such a thing which is very powerful and capable enough to break any kind of relationship. Even it can create a wall between family members. It works like a spark of fire, and it can be turned into fire if not eliminated early.

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Misunderstandings are natural, as anyone can make mistakes, as we are not God. Maximum time we don't think to understand a situation from the other side, and we come to a conclusion. We think that we are right all the time and others are wrong, and that can be a reason for misunderstanding also.

Several times we misunderstand others for some silly reason. The reason can be silly, but it can make a significant impact on the person who became a victim of our misunderstanding. If the thing happens a few times, then the impact is not so huge, but if we repeatedly misunderstand a person, it will create a huge difference because the person is judged wrongly all the time. Moreover, it's not possible to clear the misunderstanding every time when it happens again and again. If it happens between the relationship of couples, it's better to come out of the relationship, and it's good for both of them because it is enough to make a relationship toxic. And a relationship is not an exam where one needs to give exams and prove all the time.

Ego is another reason that doesn't allow us to clear misunderstandings. Many times we can also understand that we are judged wrongly, but we don't bother ourselves to apologize for our mistake. We feel that if we do it, our value may decrease for such an action. Because of our ego, we are not ready to accept our mistakes even if we know that we are on the wrong side, and we stubbornly stick with our judgment. That's the wrong attitude, and in a relationship, such an attitude is always a threat.

Several times we also judged wrongly because of misunderstanding. Sometimes we are well aware that we are the victim of misunderstanding, and we also know how to solve the misunderstanding, but we don't solve it because of our ego. For the temporary ego, we don't consider its long-term impact, and for lack of a long-term view, we take it lightly, and that can be harmful for a relationship.

Why am I saying those things today? It's because today one of my close relatives misunderstood me for a reason. I was treated unfairly for that, and it indeed made me sad because I don't like to be treated like this. For a reason, my relative blamed me for others' mistakes. I did nothing wrong. If I want, I can try to solve the misunderstanding, but I think I won't do that. The first reason is that I didn't make a mistake; secondly, I am not going to suffer loss for not having good relations with my relative. You can identify me as selfish for treating relations like that, but I don't care about it. As long as I don't see any benefit, there is no necessity to keep the relation as it's not a mistake of mine.