Cuando estudié y di clases de teatro, había algo que aprendí y enseñaba, pero quizás está mal y es "el Show debe continuar" y este post dará paso a eso.
No está mal sentir emociones y algunas emociones no está mal sentirlas. Hoy en día si te sientes triste o decepcionas de algo te catalogan de débil y poco comprensivo e incluso te dicen que eres tú el/la del problema, por haber tenido expectativas muy altas sobre aquello o aquella persona de quien te llevaste una decepción. Si por otra parte te molesta algo o te ofenden y reaccionas con molestia, te dicen que eres una persona "de a toque", "enojona" y sin capacidad de controlar tus emociones.
Si dices que algo no te gusta, si opinas diferente al montón (que no está mal), si haces alguna critica sobre algo, entonces eres "tóxico", "rompe grupo", "exagerado" y pare de contar. Y así, es como vivimos en un mundo, donde expresarse libremente está mal y existe una libertad condicionada, ya que si no sientes y piensas igual que los demás, sencillamente estás fallando.
¿Qué está pasando? Sin comentarios, cualquier opinión puede ser tomada como lo mencionado anteriormente.
No busco que adivines de qué se trata está publicación, pues yo sé a qué va, y es que hoy he tenido muchas ganas de llorar, por tanto y por nada, y quiero que Eli sepa y que tú sepas, que si quieres llorar se vale hacerlo, sin importar los comentarios, sin importar que te digan que no lo hagas, porque eres HUMANO, uno cargado de emociones y sentimientos, que es capaz de sentirse decepcionado.
No responderé comentarios de motivación, pues no espero eso, estoy bien y lo seguiré estando, solo quiero que sepas que el hecho de que siempre me veas reír, no significa que a veces no esté quebrada por dentro. Tampoco quiero dar lastima y que comenten de esa manera, solo quería dejarlo ir y eso pasará en lo que está publicación salga, pues algo que si tengo es que después de llorar, seco mis lágrimas y sí, el show continúa.
Me despido con otro pensamiento, no necesitas la aprobación de los demás para ser o hacer lo que te apasiona y ser auténtico es algo que pocos poseen, debemos evaluar el hecho de que valga la pena para nosotros mismos, porque hay para muchos que tanto esfuerzo no lo vale.
When I studied and taught theatre, there was something I learned and taught, but maybe it's wrong and it's "the show must go on" and this post will give way to that.
It is not wrong to feel emotions and some emotions are not wrong to feel. Nowadays if you feel sad or disappointed about something you are labelled as weak and unsympathetic and even told that you are the one with the problem because you had very high expectations of that person or that person from whom you were disappointed. If, on the other hand, something bothers you or you are offended and you react with annoyance, they tell you that you are a "touchy-feely" person, "angry" and unable to control your emotions.
If you say that you don't like something, if you have a different opinion to the amount (which is not wrong), if you criticise something, then you are "toxic", "a group-breaker", "exaggerated" and so on. And so, this is how we live in a world where expressing yourself freely is wrong and there is a conditioned freedom, because if you don't feel and think the same as others, you are simply failing.
What is going on? No comment, any opinion can be taken as the above.
I'm not looking for you to guess what this post is about, because I know what it's about, and that is that today I felt like crying, for so much and for nothing, and I want Eli to know and you to know, that if you want to cry it's ok to do it, no matter the comments, no matter if they tell you not to, because you are HUMAN, one loaded with emotions and feelings, who is capable of feeling disappointed.
I won't answer motivational comments, because I don't expect that, I'm fine and I will continue to be, I just want you to know that the fact that you always see me laugh, doesn't mean that sometimes I'm not broken inside. I also don't want to be pitiful and for you to comment in that way, I just wanted to let it go and that will happen in what is published comes out, because one thing I do have is that after I cry, I dry my tears and yes, the show goes on.
I say goodbye with another thought, you don't need the approval of others to be or do what you are passionate about and being authentic is something that few possess, we must evaluate the fact that it is worth it for ourselves, because there are for many that so much effort is not worth it.
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