We tend to understand the lyrics of songs when we are sad, I never loved sad or slow songs until I was heartbroken, the same sad slow songs I hated became my favorite because they resonated with how I felt at that period.
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Artistes like Westlife, Shayne Ward, and Akon became my favorite and I would listen to their songs in my free time, especially at midnight which is known to be the time the heart hurts the most, I wonder if it is the darkness or the quietness of the surrounding that caused this but as a person who has experienced heartbreak, my advice to the upcoming lover that would still experience their heartbreak is they should avoid darkness and being alone because that triples the pain from the heartbreak and you won't realize when hot tears start pouring like hot lava from your eyesthat burn your face!
Why am I so sure everyone will get heartbroken once or more in their lifetime? Most people's first love is a flop because they have no idea what is happening to them, they just notice they are being controlled by a powerful force[love] and they have no way to suppress it which makes them do some things without thinking.
I remember my first love, it happened unexpectedly and I never knew I was in love until I traveled and a few weeks later, I started missing her. Absence indeed makes the heart grow stronger and fonder... I was feeling so miserable that I had to return home earlier just to be with her.
Not to mention how the powerful force kept controlling me to hug her everywhere. I ended up hugging her when she was carrying a bucket of water, which made her drop it, and she was mad at me for that. To cut a long story short, she only loved me as a friend! Another advice I would give to the upcoming victims of heartbreak is never to hate anyone for rejecting you, it should be a source of motivation for you to work harder and become a better version of yourself... One of the best motivators is Heartbreak so there is a blessing in disappointment at times.
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After I was rejected, I blamed myself for not asking her out the right way, and I was so hurt that I distanced myself from people, i guess this contributed to the reason why I became an introvert... All I did was work my ass out giving no chance for her to cross my mind but I could not escape those thoughts at night and I would sit alone in the midnight shedding hot tears silently.
I found peace in music, I love most of the Westlife songs...
but the one below hit harder cos I can relate with it so most time it is always on repeat.
Westlife Lyrics
"Obvious"
Yeah, ooh
We started as friends
But something happened inside me
Now I'm reading into everything
There's no sign you hear the lightning, baby
You don't ever notice me turning on my charm
Or wonder why I'm always where you are
The title is there so you can download and listen to it...
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