Back in the olden days, our grand and great fathers knew nothing about medical compatibility, and some were unlucky to marry a partner with a genotype not compatible with them which resulted in a lot of misfortune in their home but they never figured out the reason for sickness and death in their home.
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Thanks to Science and Technology, the world is advanced and we are learning a lot of new things still not everyone is learning and not everyone knows the implications involved in medical compatibility but the awareness is being spread and more people know about it now.
Unfortunately, some people are aware of not being compatible with their partner but yet still go ahead committing the abomination of getting married to them and put their child of their unborn kids at risk, Is it love that blinded some people and made them not take the right decision or should we just call them selfish people.
A friend of mine almost committed this abomination but I am glad it didn't work, so it happened that the two of them were in love with each other and they were going enjoying each other company and when they realized that they were ready to push the relationship to the next level, they decided to go for a genotype test and that was when they discovered that both of them were AS.
The lady knew her Genotype before the time they did the test so it was the guy's discovery of being AS that ruined things, they didn't give up immediately, they were seeking medical advice on ways to go about it if they still wanted to go about it and they got advice from medical practitioners but those ways they give them are expensive, the lady was ready to go along with it but the guy was skeptical.
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He sought advice from friends and parents and they warned him against it and told the lady they had to go their separate ways, she was not happy with how things turned out, I also warned her against it but she was ready for the consequences, am just glad the guy did the right thing and didn't let his emotions get in the way.
I tend to make hard decisions with my brain rather than my heart because I weigh the advantages and disadvantages before venturing into things and getting married to someone I am not medically compatible with is one mistake I would never make.
I care about my unborn kids and would never do something that will put them in a miserable state all the days of their lifetime, it will haunt me too!
Secondly, the money to take care of a sickle cell child is too much!, someone I know had a sickle cell child and he spent his life savings treating the child, unfortunately, it was later discovered that the child was not even his, imagine how painful that will be, losing all your money taking care of a child that is not yours because of your wife infidelity...
Love will fade in a home without peace, so we must think of the future when making decisions, we must not let insignificant feelings get in the way cos they will take more than what we expected from us.
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