Have come to conclusion long ago that marriage is not just based on love ,love is just part of it . What most people don't talk about and it is very essential in marriage is committed and endurance . I got to realize that love is just needed in starting a relationship but needs additional support to in marriage which are endurance and commitment. Love is an action, it needs emotional involvement to keep it .
There are definitely sometimes love will definitely fade,there won't always be goosebumps,the spark will be gone sometimes. Alot of things can contribute to the the spark fading,happy heart will accommodate love,an unhappy heart won't. Work, struggles to making ends meet, can make one lose focus about his partner and the partner will start to feel less seen and the love will gradually reduces.
Hive- naija question,what will I do if I fall out of love??
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If at a point in marriage I fall out of love, one thing is I will always try to stay true to my partner, try to call him to attention that this is happening to me and let's find the solution to it, try to talk to my partner and make sure we spend more time together,he pays more attention to me,I will make sure we go back to that part where the flames are still off,things we do together then.
It is just that it is very hard when you are the only one trying to bring the flame back and your partner isn't ready, if trying to call him, taking to him, taking him back to those beautiful days aren't working with him. Then it's better to give each other some space . Sometimes it's not about divorce , you might both realize where you go wrong if you give yourself's some space. That's my take on the topic.
