A lot to things to learn from a dynamic relationship of parents

Family is the most important for a human, and among family members, parents are the most important ones who play a significant role in the life of us. It's true that they teach us to take care of us properly and protect us from danger. While growing up, we start to learn many things from them even if they don't teach us manually. We can learn many things from the relationship dynamics between parents. I think it's fair and natural because we observe them from very close.

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In my case, I have learned many things from my parents when it comes to relationships. In my opinion, there is no perfect relationship in this world. All good relationships are considered well-balanced relationships. When it comes to my parents, it's also the same. If I consider my parents individually, both of them have a lot of flaws. In case of anger management, my mother is not so good, and she gets hyper easily. I think many people fear my mom because of it. It's a good and bad thing at the same time because it has both advantages and disadvantages. On the other hand, my father has a calm mind, and rarely does he become angry. When my mom becomes angry, my father remains quiet and doesn't say anything to her, no matter if my mother is right or wrong. He knows that there is no use in saying any word in that kind of situation because in the time of anger, it may backfire. I have seen such a situation in my time and learned that when someone becomes angry, there is no use of logical words. It's better to give some time to an angry person to cool down, and later, things can be discussed in a better way or a solution can be found.

In my region, cooking and kitchen-related tasks seem only for females. I said it because I have seen it since my childhood times. I have a different perspective in this case when I started to understand things. After returning from abroad permanently, I saw a different scenario in my home. I have seen my father many times helping my mom with kitchen work. I was really impressed to see such a kind of mentality from my father. He got scolded many times for such kind of work as he wasn't so organized as Mom, but my father gave a helping hand all the time whenever my mother needed the help if he stayed at home. It makes me realize that there are no rules or restrictions to help a partner, no matter what the task is.

In a relationship, there exists sweetness and bitterness both. When I was very little, I observed the bitterness of their relationship also, even if they tried to hide it from me. At that time, I was too little to understand everything, but I understood about those incidents later. At that time, my parents quarreled with each other. The reason for quarrelling was the influence of my grandmother (father's mother) and some close relatives. In that time, my father was young and acted impulsively because of the influence. It's such a thing that made me realize that in a relationship, if there is an influence of others, it is mostly negative, and it's better not to be influenced by others and not act impulsively because it can only make things worse.

I already said that bitterness exists in a relationship. The parents need to go through many hardships and difficult times. Enduring hardships and passing the time with patience is very important. There are many complications, but with patience, everything can be solved. Patience plays a very important role in every relationship; otherwise, protecting a relationship can be difficult.