Social but combo type

Humans are social beings and from this perspective every human is social. The difference is that some people are introverted and others are extroverted. Introverted kinds of people are mostly self-centered and create the world for themselves and they try to spend their time alone or only with their family members. On the other hand, extroverted people are chill-type people and they love to meet new people and can share many things with others and make a lot of friends. Although both kinds of people are social but extroverted people are more social and more active compared to introverts.

To be honest, I was totally like a robot in my first 18 or 19 years and my mindset was totally different. Naturally, I was an introverted kind of person but after that something happened and that thing gave me a shock and I became an extrovert for 1.5-2 years( not accurate). The transformation of mine still a surprise for me and I didn't expect me as an extrovert person. Currently, I am a combo type because I am introverted and extroverted at the same time because I faced both kinds of situations in my life. According to the situation I decide when I need to be introverted and when I need to be extrovert. It's kind of an advantage for me. So today I am going to discuss how I coped up with both kinds of situations.

Let's start with my introverted kind of personality. When I was introverted, I can remember except for going to school I didn't come outside from home. I barely knew people in my society. I used to play alone as I didn't have any friends to play with except my cousin and after my cousin's family went abroad, I became lonely. I used to play games alone. It can be football, cricket, or other games. I figured out my way to play games and spend my time. My introverted personality was good for me because that thing protected me from learning something bad from other kids but at the same time I believe my childhood could be more beautiful if I enjoyed the time with others means other kids in society. So I never had a friend circle from my childhood time. In case of various occasions, I tried to avoid it as I love to spend time alone. This is the reason I still don't know many of my relatives which is kind of an embarrassing situation for me because almost all of them recognize me but I can't recognize them. My introvert kind of personality made me silent and I was afraid of speaking for my right also when I started to grow. I was living in a fantasy world where I thought about life like a video game and relationship has nothing to do with it. So except for some close relatives, my relationship with others was like an outsider. So as an introvert, my networking and communication skills were very poor and it was one kind of weakness. Instead of disadvantages, there are some good things about less social means being an introvert. I was always focused on my task. I couldn't make many friends but I found two or three friends who were real friends and I can guarantee it. I had a lot of time to think about my weaknesses and my strengths and how to work on them which made me mentally very strong.

Let's talk about the extrovert kind of mentality. Indeed it increased my networking and communication skills. I felt it was more lively and more enjoyable. I got many opportunities for working as a team for society which gave me satisfaction. I was able to know they are kind of struggles of other people and how people overcome those situations. Somehow I earned some respect from others for some good work. To be social, it need a huge time, and in that kind of situation finding some time for myself was a little bit difficult. Being an extrovert I got some unnecessary attention from others and sometimes I needed to do some favor to others which I didn't want and that cost my time also.

Currently, I am a combo type person and in my personality, I have both introvert and extrovert characters, and based on situation demand on situations I become extrovert otherwise introvert. In the case of social interaction, I can keep the balance in better ways compared to the past time.