Well, right from the onset am not a fan of vacations, parties and all, so also, a perfect day for me doesn't need to be loud. Nothing out of the ordinary is needed, just peace, that's all am all about. I haven't been around for so long, but I have been around for a while to know that perfection doesn't mean nothing goes wrong, it just means the things that matters most go right.
And to be able to bring that into reality, firstly I need calmness, a kind of silence that looks like the world is on pause, just for me......no generator hum, no distant arguments, no neighbor shouting on their kids.....just silence, the kind that would make me hear snd focus on myself. I can be able to think, to plan, to pray, to breathe and feel light. But a quite life here is a luxury, yea, such is a big luxury, but there are some days that that do happen, a day like today which happens to be a weekend, it seems I woke up before the world does, and everything/everywhere was just calm in a different kind of way.
Also, a perfect day for me also need a companion, someone I can talk freely with, someone I am free with, not having forced conversations, but someone that really sees me, it might not really be that the person is present physically, it might be a video call or a voice call. It might be a talk with someone close, or maybe just a few minute hug with my mum, maybe just someone who wouldn't come to judge me, to talk down on me, just something as little as...verything’s going to be okay.
For a perfect day, personally I just believe you, really matters, am not about giving people what they want or fitting into the world's definition of a perfect day, but mine, which could be just as simple as being in my room with someone, talking and laughing until tears come, if you've experienced such before, you will agree with me that for those moments, nothing else matters, you tend to let go of everything and focus on that moment.
A companion is important for a perfect day, that I believe, it helps memories, you have someone to share it with, looking at it from the beginning, this is not a preaching, but from the beginning human beings were never designed to walk alone, even Eden wasn’t complete until there was someone to share it with. So on a perfect day, to say a day is perfect, someone is needed, even if it's just for a moment.
Also, a perfect day for me is one where something/anything is being done, a day where I am able to do something, to step a bit forward, to accomplish a task, no matter how small. It might just be me writing in my journal which could help lift something heavy off my chest, it might just be me crossing off a task, an undone work or anything because I have sorted it.
Even if it's just a little, a perfect day should be one where I actually did something, might not necessarily be something massive, loud or grand, but at least, a task was done, something was written, a life was touched, a problem was solved.......
A perfect day for me is one that aligns with my spirit, one that brings me peace, one that shows I'm growing/moving, one where I'm remembered, I don't want or seek for the validations of others or their applause, that's me fitting into their scripts, I want one that is mine, not necessarily seen or accepted by the world, just quietness, connection and progress.
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